Musical bedrooms
January 27, 2008
Back in August, I shared that I was splitting up Lauren & Rachel’s room, and putting Rachel’s bedroom in half of the living room. Well, we played magical bedrooms once again.
Austin has been having a very hard time waking up in the morning. Well, Austin has this way with telling us what the problem is first, then dropping little hints here and there as to the cause. Matty was the cause. Fragile X kids seem to have this wierd thing about needing minimal sleep. Matt would go to bed at like 8 p.m. and be wide awake at 3 a.m. He then would lay in his bed until everyone else starting moving around. But in those 2+ hours he was jabbering, giggling, and stealing Austin’s covers. Austin is our night owl so he would be finally going to sleep at about 11 p.m. only to be woke up by Matt at 3 a.m. The poor teen was not getting adequate rest.
As a trial, I started having Matt sleep on the couch in the living room to see how him and Rachel meshed. Matt could wake up and jabber and Rachel wouldn’t be fazed. Rachel could jabber and grind her teeth in her sleep and Matt would sleep through it.
So Kevin and I, quite timidly, mentioned to Austin about living in the living room. He stoked about it until he heard that he couldn’t take any furniture with him….just switch out belongings. I dropped little hints all week long about the advantages of it. Plus he started noticing that he could play the PS2 longer if the little kids weren’t in the living room. His friends could also sleep on the couch when they stay over and, if they stay up all night, they won’t be bothering anyone with their video games and refrigator raids.
We started the move yesterday. Rachel was with her dad so it was a perfect time to do it. We asked Austin one last time how he felt about it. He said he wanted to but he didn’t want to make Rachel upset. We had to laugh at him because he tries to pretend to hate her but he worries about her so much. When we told him that she would be happy about it he was off for the move.
Austin had a friend over that helped him move stuff around. Of course, they are not as
efficient as, well, me. So this morning I did the finishing touches. I got the little kids room arranged so they have a block of floor space to play. I got the last of Austin’s things to his room. I got all the posters, pictures, medals, etc up in the little kids rooms. I got the last of Rachel’s stuff out of the living room.
I was just about done when Rachel got home. I wish you could have seen the big beautiful grin that she had on her face. She threw her arms up and started jumping up and down. She helped me finish it up.
Austin’s room isn’t quite done yet. He pretended to jokingly ask if I would help him like I was the little kids. I told him that he was a big boy and could do the room just fine. He was taller and more creative than the little kids. He said, “Good point,” and headed down the hall. But I think tomorrow night I’ll go give him a hand on the final touches.
So now I’m happy, the teens have their own rooms & are happy, and the little kids are sharing a room (once again) & are happy, and Kevin’s happy cuz we are. Why didn’t we think of this before?

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sue | January 28, 2008 at 2:04 am
I am currently in my living room with my asleep fx guy. I have a five year old whose bed is in my room. And an 8 yr old that has to sleep in her room, light on, cat in hand.
My 11 year old took the living room, he likes to sleep and live there (computer and couch). I’m thinking of making his room more like the living room cause he doesn’t like us to go there anymore (can’t deal with noise).
Any hints on keeping the living room for everyone while having a child live there???????
Sue
Wow Sue. That’s a toughy. Rachel and Austin were both told ahead of time that half of the room was still the living room so they HAD to share with the rest of the family. But my hubby and I’s bedroom is where everyone is most comfortable for “noisy” activities like watching movies and being rowdy. Maybe you can convert part of a bigger room for more roucous stuff??
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magneto bold too | January 28, 2008 at 4:18 am
I hear you on the minimal sleep. Boo is bouncing off the walls and it is 10.30. Well at least we are in his room.
Glad that the move was successful! Phew!
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fragilemom | January 28, 2008 at 7:44 am
Minimal sleep….yep. Which for my hubby and me means minimal sleep for us too. We have our 4 year old (I’ll just name him James) on clonodine to help him go to sleep at bedtime. Unfortunately, it doesn’t KEEP him asleep. He goes to bed at 8pm, then like ya’ll, he’s up anywhere between midnight and 3am doing the exact things you mentioned….talking, laughing (we always wonder at what), yelling and screaming (usually happily). If it weren’t for giving him a smaller dose of clonodine, he would be up for 2-3 hours. As he’s getting bigger, it doesn’t work all beautifully as it used to, but it usually does the trick. I don’t know how big your house is, but ours is only about 1400 s.f. Our bedroom is separated from the kids (but obviously, not THAT separated). The 2 kids’ rooms are right across the small hall from each other. We have our daughter (I’ll name her Grace) and our baby son (I’ll name him David) share a room, which so far works fine. Grace sleeps like a rock, but sometimes James just gets sooooo loud that she does wake up. David still gets up to need a bottle (I think we’ve created that habit because we didn’t want him waking up Grace when he woke up).
We have had our house up for sale since last July. We hadn’t been in a huge rush because it has worked out okay for the younger ones to share a room. God willing, David won’t have the same sleep problems, but Fragile X history shows he probably will.
I often giggle at new moms who 3 months or so down the road are saying, “We haven’t slept through the night since the baby was born.” I always want to retort back, “I’d feel for you, but we haven’t slept through the night in 4 years.” But luckily I use my self control and realize that situations are just different and I can’t go and compare or say mine is worse than anyone else’s. I remember what it was like as a new mom too….it’s rough. Luckily, our family has an awesome friend who loves my children very very much. She has offered several times to let us stay at her house to sleep some nights while she would stay at our house and endure the night. We have found hotel nights every once in a while to be a great reliever. Again our friend comes to stay with the kiddos.
We’re hoping to sell the house and get a bigger one (that we can afford) before the kids get too old that we don’t know what to do with them regarding bedrooms. For now, we just go to bed early and switch off nights for which of us will get up when the kids do. I’m so grateful to have such an involved husband.
Also, question for above comment from magneto bold too…what do you mean, “at least we are in his room”? Do you share the room? Tell me how ya’ll work it out. How old is Boo?
Thanks for sharing how you handled that problem. I’m glad it worked out for you!
lol…fragilemom…your house is much bigger than mine. Scary for a family of six…it’s like 1100 sq feet!!!