Autistic toddler kicked off plane

June 25, 2008

I just ran across this.  What do you guys think about it??  I’d love to hear your comments.

There is also a video of the little guy too :)

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Autistic toddler kicked off airplane

Monday, June 23, 2008

The mother is telling her story exclusively to Eyewitness News.

 

An American Eagle flight taxiing to a Raleigh-Durham Airport runway was turned around Monday, but not because of a terrorist threat.

The crew was kicking an autistic Cary toddler and his mother off the plane.

As the American Eagle flight headed down the taxiway, two-and-a-half-year-old Jarett Farrell wasn’t a happy traveler.

His mother says she was doing all she could to calm the autistic boy, but got no sympathy from the flight crew.

“If they just would have been a little more understanding I think that none of this would have been a problem,” Mother, Janice Farrell said.

But it became a big problem for everyone on the plane. Farrell says that’s because the flight attendant was indignant.

“She kept coming over and tugging his seatbelt to make it tighter, ‘This has to stay tight’. And then he was wiggling around and trying to get out of his seatbelt. And she kept coming over and reprimanding him and yelling at him,” Farrell said.

One of the pilots came back to the cabin with a stern warning and Farrell says the frustration level escalated.

She says Jarrett picked up on that and things only got worse.

“He just melted down. He saw me getting upset. He was upset. He was on the floor rolling around,” she said.

The pilot returned to the cockpit, turned the plane around and headed back to the terminal.

“The pilot made an announcement that there was a woman and her child on the plane and the child is uncontrollable. And at that point I just broke down,” Farrell said.

Farrell says when she got back to her home in Cary she called her husband and they decided that she should call American Airlines corporate. She says a company representative apologized and said the incident should never have happened.

But that’s not what American Airlines told Eyewitness News.

A spokesman in Dallas says Jarret was pitching a “raging fit”.

And that Janice, who was in a front-row seat, refused to allow her bag to be placed in an overhead compartment, even though there was no under seat stowage.

He says that with a “passenger not complying with FAA regulations, this was the right decision.”

Farrell says even though her travel bag had things to calm Jarrett, she did indeed give it to the flight attendant.

“She took my bag and put it up top,” Farrell said.

Farrell is taking the train to see family in New Jersey and she and her husband say they will never fly American again.

 

(Copyright ©2008 WTVD-TV/DT. All Rights Reserved.)

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10 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Michelle  |  June 25, 2008 at 3:16 pm

    Well, I feel for everyone involved. It is not easy to watch a toddler pitch a fit & most people assume the parents (mother) are responsible for the behaviour.

    I haven’t quite “been there” as in being escorted off an airplane, but I have been in public for a meltdown more than once. It is humiliating, it is scary & it is the most helpless I have ever felt, because there is nothing that will help.

    All in all, despicable behaviour on the part of the airline staff. Taking an extra moment to be kind, find out what the problem was, perhaps assist the mother in retriving an item or two from her bag, all those things might have helped. Grr. Momma bear comin’ out again!!

  • 2. jesseybean  |  June 25, 2008 at 7:28 pm

    This is awful! There is a problem when someone with disabilities gets kicked off the plane for having just that, a disability. I cant believe they turned the plane around. I’m sure if someone just asked the mother if there was a problem or if they could help, it would have turned out alot differently. Geez.

  • 3. lastcrazyhorn  |  June 25, 2008 at 9:03 pm

    And it had to be North Carolina too. *slaps hand over eyes*

    Oh geez. What the hell is the world doing to itself?

  • 4. Tiffany Wright  |  June 25, 2008 at 10:21 pm

    I’ve been in that situation with David plenty of times on flights (not getting kicked off but having him melt down). We’ve received varied responses from flight crews. Most of the time we’ve been pretty lucky and had kind people to work with but there have been times when I wanted to smack them in the face for being rude. Kwim? I think, personally, that if they were aware of his disability (mom may not have disclosed that he had autism) and they still kicked them off the plane then doesn’t that violate the laws protecting individuals with disabilities? Even if they didn’t know, she could probably still sue them and win or at least get a settlement. I’m not sure that I would do it but I know I’d be plenty angry over something like this. I am angry and it didn’t even happen to me! I have seen plenty of “normal” children acting worse than I’ve ever seen David act on a plane and no one gave a 2nd thought to it. I just think the world has become so self-centered that no one ever stops to think that maybe there might be something they could do to help someone. They just think how any given situation might make their life a little less ideal, a little less easy, a little less comfortable. Kwim? I really think that this whole “lets kick people with small children off of planes” bit has gone way too far! I’m sorry but, just because a kid cries or doesn’t wear his seatbelt as tight as an adult might or maybe doesn’t act like an adult (heaven forbid!) that they are not safe to have on a plane! HELLO!!!! Try looking for terrorists rather than picking on parents traveling with young children! Sorry. I’m gonna jump off my soap box now and let it go but I think you can tell how I feel about it. I put myself in that mother’s shoes and I know what she was going through cause we’ve been there in other situations with David, where people try to talk to him or yell at him or yell at me because of him and it just heightens the situations. It’s not productive in any way at all for them or anyone. That’s just my opinion.

  • 5. 19thmayflower  |  June 26, 2008 at 12:38 am

    yea i think Mrs Farrell did not explain to the cabin crew that her son is autistic. it must have been hard for both the crew and Mrs Farrell. i’m a preschool teacher with 2 autistic kids in class and i can tell ya, it’s a headache. so i understand how both must have felt.

  • 6. FXSmom  |  June 26, 2008 at 11:05 am

    Excellent points from all of you! I was infuriated when I read this too.

    Many years ago my aunt was kicked off a bus because her two year old was pitching a fit. She was left alone in Denver, at night with a 2 year old. She was 12 hours from her destination and her family. She and her son spent the night in a cemetary. She figured that was the safest place to be.

    I learned then that people could be cruel. Instead of finding a safe solution for all they found a solution for just many.

    I’m sure in that situation the mom probably mentioned that her son had autism. I know I would have. I just hope that in the future airlines will get more and more accepting of our children and realize how better to handle themselves around our kids.

  • 7. Tiffany Wright  |  June 26, 2008 at 5:28 pm

    I would think she would have told them too but she didn’t say anything about it in the interviews I’ve seen so it makes me wonder. Cause I would have been like, “I tried to explain to them that he’s autistic…” But that’s just me. Maybe she didn’t mention it cause it was obvious since all the stories are saying her son was autistic so obviously someone knew he was somehow, right? Anyway, I hadn’t heard about it until you posted about it but I was so fired up after I read it and watched the video and then posted here that I had to go blog out my frustration on MY blog! LOL! I might have gotten a little carried away but it’s just that I know that could have been me so many times throughout David’s 9 years and I am grateful that we’ve had great service in those situations but I know it could easily have gone the other way. I think that’s why it hits me so hard here. Kwim?

  • 8. Marla  |  June 26, 2008 at 8:54 pm

    Sad situation. Makes me nervous to travel.

  • 9. Naomi  |  June 28, 2008 at 1:15 pm

    Wow that is messed up!!! I think I would have really thrown a shit fit.

  • 10. Mary Anne  |  July 8, 2008 at 5:13 am

    This is so wrong on so many levels. With an increase in the number of children being diagnose within the autism spectrum, the rest of humanity is going to have to learn how to ‘deal with it’. Just as decades ago people would not want to be near a person with cancer (thought it might be contagious) but now do not think twice about being with someone with this disease, the public is going to have to become at ease with those in the autism spectrum.
    I have Asperger’s Syndrome, mild CP, a seizure disorder, severe asthma, was born with Atrial Septal Defect and now have Hepatitis C that was in a blood transfusion given while fixing the ASD. I guess I probably would have been kicked off the plane too…just in case I accidentally cut myself and bled on someone ! (Can’t catch it that way for real !).
    This story makes me really angry at people and is why I stay at home always.

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